The ideal state of your reality is this: you are happy in the now and have a certain vision of the future, one that excites and moves you. The ideas you have generated for your future are the ones that pull you forward, it is where you want to be, however you are happy in this present, even though that vision can be seen distant.
When you are in your ideal state and even though your vision may not yet be real there is a feeling of growth and enjoyment, it feels almost as if Luck is on your side. This ideal state is the one that propels you towards your dreams and your ideal future.
BE HAPPY IN THE NOW
To get to be in this ideal state in which you only feel that good things are coming to you, that your future and your vision are approaching being your present reality you must take into account a couple of important notions of happiness. The first of these is not to condition your happiness to fulfill those goals that you have, but to the pursuit of that goal. This first part of being happy in the now must be real and to be so you must be grateful to the present, what you already have. With this you will not condition happiness: if it happens ... I'll be happy / when I do ... I can smile.
Being happy in the present does not force you to wait for future happiness. Chasing your dream is the engine, it is what motivates you and fills you with a feeling that keeps you motivated and keeps moving you forward. For the above is that it is important that your vision of the future is one that really motivates you, because despite working a lot, of almost not resting you will not feel exhausted. well, it moves you into something bigger.
DEVELOP AN EXCITING VISION OF THE FUTURE
Although it is important to live in the present, what really makes extraordinary people is to have an almost palpable vision of the future; of what you want in the future.
Travel to the Swiss Alps, have a hot chocolate at the foot of the Eiffel Tower, raise a beautiful family, be able to spend more time with your children and partner than at work, learn a new language... The options are limitless, so tying your vision to something that really motivates you is what will help you achieve it.
The vision for the future you want is one that really speaks to your soul, that moves your heart, that makes you very excited and scare you a little, as Joe Vitale says.
To build your reality it is important that your goals are, first, goals that are not tied to something that makes you happy for a while, you must tie it to experiences, your growth and how you can contribute to the world from that goal. Goals that move you further. Second, that you do not limit your capabilities and possibilities, in our nature we tend to overestimate what we can do in one year and underestimate what we can do in three years.
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