What makes you different from anyone else is not just your first name, last name and genetic code. Another important and differentiating factor is the size of your expectations against your projects, your goals and your dreams.
If your dreams are of the appropriate 'size', it depends on you, what you want and what you project, in that sense the most logical thing to happen is that you decide the size of the expectations. However, if your projects are not big enough they will not generate in you the extra push that is needed to get up early, to change routines, to make the leap, to take the risk of working for it.
When you set your goals and when you have already designed them according to what you want, it is usual to start feeling or having a couple of concerns, which are practically opposite poles, with respect to them: Doubt or uncertainty about whether or not they will be reality and overwork on those plans (suffocate). Keep in mind that the former usually exists when you have not defined specific goals that are realistic and the latter occurs when you do not give yourself a break, and you begin to neglect other aspects of life.
Let's start with doubt. Of the many inner enemies of your dreams, she is one of the most dangerous. When she exists the limiting beliefs begin to be argued, they begin to distance the space between you and your dreams and finally convince your subconscious of the 'impossibility' of those projects.
When there is doubt there can also be its antonym: security. How does it exist or is it born? from the same root as its counterpart: your thoughts, they lead to actions, those actions will bring results, those results more security, which brings more actions and so on and cyclically, until you have come to materialize that plan you worked for.
Let's go to the other pole, overwork. Without actions there are no results, period. There is No magic wand or genius in a lamp that does for you what you must do to meet your goals, this is a concept that you must be clear and is that of your responsibility to do-or stop doing - things.
If you have to work hard and a lot for your dreams I leave it to your consideration, but take care of all fronts. Do not let by setting your eyes on a goal, you miss other areas that should also be in your consideration, such as your health, your family, your partner, your spirituality, your knowledge and your experiences. So that this does not sound intimidating or overwhelming because of the amount of work that seems to keep everything under control, seek that your goals always look for the well-being of all areas of your life or look for points of intersection between them when designing your projects.
"Dare to dream the life you have dreamed for yourself.
Go ahead and make your dreams come true."
Ralph Waldo Emerson
Your dreams should be big enough to bully you a little bit, but not so much as to scare you work for them, in this sense, the expectations that you must not only be real, they must motivate you, should not ahuyentarte, should be yours, and must give you the possibility of not neglecting other areas of your life.
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